He said he sent me cash in an envelope, and I assume a usps worker stole it because it never arrived. I found his mom on facebook and explained the situation. A package from BDSM Master arrived today and inside is a check for $20, a few t shirts, some stickers, and a pair of used ruben pc's.
I honestly only really expected the money, but sent extra as an apology.
The whole thing was a bit of a hassle, but he definitly came through. BDSM Master is legit.