Recommended caliber...?
I'm not a big guy, but I want something somewhat powerful that is still fun to shoot and manageable. I highly doubt I will use it alllll the time but I do want to be comfortable with it and have it be almost second nature to load it, and use it as necessary if the time comes. It will be more of a hobby type deal rather than hunting all the time. So if it feels like I'm slamming my hand in a door every time I shoot it it isnt a huge deal. As of right now I'm looking at the Taurus Tracker .44 Mag and a Glock 26 (9mm)as a backup. I also dont want rounds that arte tooo expensive if there is something cheaper and more fun to shoot. So basically something for home defense that is reliable (Glock) and/or something that is just a mean looking fun gun to shoot every now and again (Taurus). Would these calibers be ideal? should I go smaller/bigger...? I won't be shooting buffalo but I also dont want to have buyers remorse and wish I got something larger.
I would go with a Glock 19, or 23 for back up.
I would only get the Glock 26 if you were going to be carrying it on a daily basis. Small guns are less accurate and less fun to shoot,
so if you get something bigger like the 19 or 23 you can still have fun with it at the range.
I would suggest you go over to AR15.com and look around the forums a bit, you will definitely learn a thing or two.
I want one of those little tiny pistols you see in the movies, like the ones the size of your palm.
A Deringer, I've seem people that had belt buckles made to hold them.