so i'm in the market for my first handgun, and i'm trying to decide between an XD or an XDM, and i'm also trying to decide between a 9mm and .40 cal.
mostly this will be for recreational shooting. i don't really feel i need it for personal/home defense since i live in a pretty safe area, although i plan on moving in a couple years so it's possible that i'll end up in a city where that factor will come into play.
i'm leaning towards the XDM 9, for a few reasons. i've had the chance to handle both the XD and XDM in both calibers, and i definitely prefer the feel of the XDM and its grip pattern. i also like the XDM for the higher capacity, and i'm leaning towards 9mm for less expensive ammo. also, the paddle holster that comes with the XDM is just a little bonus over the belt holster that comes stock with the XD.
does anyone with experience with either/both of these handguns have any feedback/info/advice?
thanks.